I Love myself

 As I have said before, if there’s one thing that describes my personality is my smile. I love smiling because it really helped me not to degrade myself and helped me to overcome and ostracize the insecurities that were injusticeful to me. If there’s one thing that I hate to see is another human being degrading another human being that could unpurposely destroy them, mentally or emotionally. At some point, I always believed that there are things in psychology of a human that cannot be fixed, easily. However, we have to find means and middle ground to mend whatever we said or incorrect impression we have left to another human being because in times we live by, people easily resort to suicide and , at least, succumb to depression which lead them doing impulsive decisions. If such happens then it absolutely means that we are doing nothing to build ourselves but to, vehemently, destroy each other.

 As much as I am very reserved and shy person but when I am on under the influence of alcohol, I love talking so much and engaging with people because it makes me let go of me trying to be a man all the time and helps me to process a new energy that will plant a totally different perspective though my drinking is on moderation but I do not drink, hecticly and that’s why someone would presume that I am an internal person, who is most encouraged and inspired by the internal stuff.

 Few days ago, I said, on facebook, that it’s okay and fine to tell your friends that you are not ready to sleep with anyone regardless of your age. I had a reason to utter what I uttered because my friends always ask me that, don’t I feel pressurised or uncomfortable that I have not slept with anyone? My answer is always a simply “No” because I am not ready to be intimate with anyone hence I said that it’s not a shame or embarrassment to tell your friends that you are not ready to sleep with anyone and being insecured about my looks could be one of the reasons that I have not slept with anyone. The other thing is that, in our cuurent generation, we sleep with people because there’s sexual justification to seek for, we do not sleep with anyone because we love each other but we are being intimate because there’s sexual justification to seek for.

Damn, Did I just go in depth on this blog about whatever I said? I hope you enjoyed reading the blog and I truly hope that you will enjoy the next one to come.

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